Self-acceptance is a deep act of self-love. When you accept yourself fully in each moment, situation or challenge you are faced with, it means that you are choosing to love yourself unconditionally No. Matter. What. Your life could be flipped upside down, things in your Union can get really messy, maybe you have to start over from scratch at something you’ve been incessantly perusing; but you’re still choosing to love yourself without condition knowing you are a Divine Child of God perfectly worthy of Love. Self-acceptance can be something challenging to give to yourself if you aren’t used to living in this way, or if you have had a childhood where you were criticized a lot and not accepted unconditionally for who you really are. Of course, if this is the case, your Twin Flame might even be reflecting to you not fully accepting you as you are. The truth is, you are always loved unconditionally and completely accepted by your Twin Flame at all times, but if you don’t feel this in your heart at the moment that’s okay, it might just be something to heal through.
Accepting yourself as you are brings you closer to your Twin Flame, because at the very core of your Union, there is total acceptance between the two of you. When you choose to accept yourself without condition, right here in this moment, you're acknowledging the truth of who you are. That you have in fact never done anything wrong and that you're simply growing and learning.
My Gurus Jeff and Shaleia teach us that in order to move forward on your Twin Flame journey at any given moment, you must choose to accept yourself where you are at now. Say you desire to live in a mansion with your Twin Flame in Harmonious Union, but you are still working a crappy job at a restaurant and your Twin Flame is dating someone else, you MUST absolutely accept that this is the experience you are having. However, you don’t have to accept this as your ultimate reality. Blocks and upsets will come up, but simply make the choice to accept the part of you having this experience of not having your dreams fulfilled yet, and continue loving yourself through everything that is presented to you.
How does this help you get closer to your Twin Flame though? Well, your Twin Flame can feel when you are genuinely loving yourself, and accepting your true authentic self. In fact, this is very attractive to them. So as you do so, you will see your Union shift and your Twin Flame desiring to be closer to you. Self-acceptance is very healing for you and your Union. Don’t be afraid of giving yourself the acceptance that you desire in each and every moment. It will only ever lead you closer to your dreams; and of course, your Harmonious Twin Flame Union!
Roxanne Lemoine Certified Ascension Coach Twin Flames Universe